Jedi-Mom trick : 5 love languages

When you have kids, they notice ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ! If youโ€™re tense and fighting, they see it. If youโ€™re happy and glowing, they feel that too. โฃโฃ

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Did you know that thereโ€™s a childrenโ€™s version for the 5 love languages?โฃโฃ

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They are: 1. physical touch 2. words of affirmation 3. quality time 4. gifts and 5. acts of service.โฃโฃ

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My 3-year old definitely prefers acts of service, he loves helping others and making them feel special. I call him my little Casanova because of how many little gifts he gives me throughout the day, and how much he likes to help me. He constantly asks if Iโ€™m Happy, and seems to have that as his end goal (๐˜ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ!) #blessed ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ Also, his new thing is answering the question โ€œ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜บโ€ with โ€œ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎโ€๐Ÿฅฐ which always makes me smile ๐Ÿ˜.โฃโฃ

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๐—ช๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ก ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ?โฃโฃ

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You know your child, though they may appreciate all of them, one of those 5 is what Chapman calls their โ€˜primary love languageโ€™.  โฃโฃ

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The author writes โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ.โ€ Providing your child with healthy doses of their primary love language, with a dash of the other four will prepare them for healthy relationships in the future. โฃโฃ

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This cannot be stressed enough, lead by example!  โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ. ๐˜“๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด.โ€ โฃโฃ

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